2009年1月30日星期五

我在牛年里的点点滴滴

在这里,我先恭祝各位牛到吉祥,牛年大吉。希望大家能在新的一年里心想事成。每逢新年,想必大家的生活作息都是在家吃,喝,玩,乐外加聚赌。不过,我特别喜好跟着一大帮朋友到出去拜年。一来,我的死党有些一年才能见他们一次面,所以我当然不能放弃这个机会陪他们共度这个喜气洋洋的日子。二来,最重要的是拜年能够促进彼此之间的感情。与久违见面的朋友聚一聚,何尝不是人生的一大乐趣。 况且,能够从小学一路扶持对方到现在,这份友谊更加显得难能可贵。



我与我从小到大的死党,本来画面上应该不止这些人数,但奈何有些友人有事不能来参于我们的大团拜。

我们与我们小学六年级其中最敬爱的老师之一(穿黄色T SHIRT)。看到这幅照片,仿佛让我想起以前小学时那段无忧无虑的生涯。虽然大家在生理上有着很大的改变,但不变的依旧是我们友好的感情。
我与我的好友们

我与我可爱的学弟与学妹们

看着这一片绿油油及欧式的庭院,我也忍不住趁机摆好pose来拍个够


嘻嘻,笑一个 ^^, 中间下方的不速之客是我学弟可爱的小妹

美好时光,一眨眼就过了,又要等到一年后才能见到对方,但是我不会就此放弃联络彼此之间的机会。我们之所以能够相识,乃是因为缘分,这份十多年的友谊,真的要好好珍惜。虽然大家身处在异地,我们的友谊,有如雄伟的山岗,长流的河水,永不终止,但愿直到永远。

2009年1月9日星期五

TAGGED!!!

^^ This is my first time using my broken English to write my blog. Recently, i have been tagged by my dearest juniors then i got not choice to answer them. Here you go..... DANG DANG!!! Let me answer all these questions.But before that , please take a look at these 2 rules when people have tagged you.

Rule 1: People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any questions that they dislike with a new question formulated by themselves.

Rule 2: Tag 5 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse.

These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the same person whom they were tagged by continuing this game by sending it to other people.

Tagged by Sze Inn and Grace.

1. Do you have secrets?
~Yup, i guess everybody have their own secret. If somebody say they have not secrets in their then they probably are liars at all because we are human being sure got secrets in our life
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2. Would you fall in love with a girs younger than you?
~Why not! Sure is ok lar, but i got the age limit for it also. I cannot accept girl who is 5 years old younger than me because it would make me feel like i am taking care a younger sister rather than a girl friend.

3. Do you enjoy going to college?
~Yeah, i am loving it. Because i can meet different kind of people in college and i like to talk to different kind of people. I am totally enjoy my social life.

4. What would you do with a billion dollars?
~ Ermm... first , i would use it to invest on certain financial field or start a business with my colleages. Second, i would buy a big big house and Audi sport car. Third, i would like to travel the whole world and also include space traveling. Forth, every guy must have their own big dream since young so do i aslo so i would use it to chase after my big dream.^^

5. Will you fall in love with your best friend?
~Yup, i believe in first sight love also but i rather choose a relationship which grow from the best friend first because you never know you love her unless you have being with her together for quite sometimes. But i believe the process need some kinds of chemical reaction to happens also.

6.Will you give up to sb when you have being rejected by the cutie girl u love?
~Well, i can only say that if i trully love that girl then i wouldnt give up so easily at all becasue i dont want to let go my happiness so easily or else i would feel regret in my life. Sometimes people would ask me why i still insist on chasing after sb even though she will reject me and my answer is she deserves me to do that!I can list down at least 10 reasons why she deserves me to do that but i am not gonna to list down here because it is my secret also.^^ but what i can say is she is an unique and a beautiful lady at all and more importantly she is still herself and i like her.

7. Will the person you like occupy your heart forever even though you and her blew up already?
~Yup, certainly. I am that kind of person who will emphasize on the relationship be it friendship or love relationship. She would always in my heart whenever and wherever i am because i love her sincerely if i start a love relationship with a girl i love. If i blew up with her in the end, i would still keep her in my mind and i would only memorize those sweetest time with her together instead of her bad side but i would keep sincerely with my another new spouse also and i would wish her well for her new relationship also.


8. What do you prefer? Touching story or happy story?
~I would prefer touching story.Why? Because if that movie really touch my heart sure is a very good movie because my standtard for judgement of movies are quite high( i am a crazy movie lover)

9. Do you have any regrets?
~Yes, I used to.But i would keep that regret as a lesson in order for me not to repeat the same mistake again next time. That is what makes me to behave the way i am today.


10. What are your favourite saying recently?
~Nice to meet you.(Recently i meet many of the foreigner in my campus include Kazashtan , China and also Nigeria. I love to talk to people and make new friends that is why i love to social with people)

11. What kind of person do you think the person that tagged you is?
~Ermmmm.... well, they are my dearest juniors and all of them are kindly and helpful. I like to talk with them very much since they are fun also : )


12. Would you rather be single and rich or married but poor?
~ Well, neither both of them. I would rather choose to be more spiritual that means to be confidence in everything and a little bit rich(We all need money but that doesnt mean that we need to become the slave for money) but to get married with someone i love.


13. What is your favourite colour?
~White. Because it represents pureness and sincerely.


14. Would you give all in a relationship?
~ Yes, but not 100% instead of 80%. Why? Because if i give all in a relationship it would make you so tired and lack of freedom also and the rest of 20% is loving yourself as well.


15. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously, whih one would you choose?
~ Well, the answer is simple. I will choose the one who is in the same world with me in any kind of aspects.


16. What are the top 5 places on your tp-go list?
~JAPAN
AMERICA
GERMAN
NEW ZEALAND
FINLAND
all these countries are highly advancing countries. They got the kind of characterists i am loving to so that is why i would like to go there if got any chances in the future.


17. Name three thing you would like to do but never able to
~Starting my first love relationship at age 21
Become backpacker and travel alone in the countries i love at age 18( but i believe one day i will fullfil my dream)


18. 5 people i wanna tag
~Peace
Elvin
Ang
Charles
Li Shan

2009年1月1日星期四

省思



首先呢,我先向大家说一声“2009年牛年快乐"!!! 希望大家能在新的一年里,好好省思一下过去所做的一切,好让自己能够在自己的行为或态度上有所长进及提升个人的修养内涵,这些的所作所为全都是为了能够让自己在新的一年里有着一个更美满及快乐的生活。

人 生无常罢,何必为了生活上的一些不快乐的麻烦琐事困扰着自己,让自己没有好日子过。"一个人能放下多少,幸福就有多少",众日背着一个大石头在身边,会把 人逼得喘不过气来,也失去了生活的乐趣。人生就只有这么唯一的一次,错过了一次就永远不能再回头了。所以自己能做的,就是要把握当下,活在当下。人生就好 比一部电影,自己身兼编辑,导演及演员多元角色。要拍这么样的一部好电影,就只有自己知道。

身边的友人或贵人就好比电影里的配角或过路 客,少了他们一部好电影就拍不成了,更别不用说会被入围奥斯卡将最佳电影。一部好电影,少不了一本好的剧本及卡司,缺一不可,少了一样就等同于一部很"费 "的电影就好比我近日所看的"THE EARTH STOOD STILL ",简直是2008年的超级大烂片,让人失望到极点。贵人对自己的影响力非同反响,足以改变你的一生。我相信自己生命中的的贵人不一定是陪着你过着幸福美 满童年生活的人,却可能是跟你现在最要好或深交的人,也搞不好是一面之交的朋友。正因为贵人或知己难求,世界上真正能明白你心情及跟你默契相和的人肯定不 会比我们身上的手指头多,所以应当把握及珍惜与他们相处的每一个时刻。

"情",在这世界上是买不到的不管你的财富是否富可敌国,但是我们 却可以选择去追求及珍惜它。正因为"情"难能可贵,得来不易,就更加要去珍惜及呵护它,不管是面对着亲情,友情或爱情也好,都要以真诚的态度去面对它,绝 不作假,努力经营着这一片属于自己的"情"地。尤其是在经营友情方面,我非常讲究”诚信“这两个字,一但友情缺少了诚信,友情会变的不堪一击不能长远下 去。我不期望别人能用着相同的态度对待我,但我自己一定非得要做到这一点,这也是我做人的原则之一。

人在这个世界上是靠理想而活的。理 想,是人生奋斗的动力也是人生存在的价值。没有了理想,面对苦难的的生活,人将会缺乏向命运抗争的斗志。这就好比一个人现在的感情生活有多么的不顺利,甚 至一度感到非常的垂丧,但支撑着他们背后的却是伟大的理想,勇敢的向着自己的理想前进。所以现在是时候规划一下自己的理想,不要荒废了自己在2009年的 人生生涯,毕竟一味浪费自己的精力在无所谓的地方,实在是太不值得了。

我之所以会想写出这一篇关于省思的文章是因为最近所发生的一些事让自己有感而发,希望藉此挥发一下自己的感言。记住,生命不是一种等待,而是一种期待。面对人生的无奈,人生依然可以有所作为,因为乐观,进取,所以明天会更好。